Have you ever felt like you’re doing everything right—visualizing, affirming, taking action—but your manifestation still isn’t showing up?
💡 The problem isn’t your desire. It’s resistance.
When we try to control, force, or obsess over our manifestations, we create energetic blockages that push them away. The key to receiving is letting go and allowing abundance to flow effortlessly.
Let’s explore why resistance happens, how to release it, and how to step into a state of surrender and trust.
What is Resistance in Manifestation?
Resistance is any thought, belief, or emotion that contradicts what you’re trying to manifest.
- Doubt: “What if this doesn’t work?”
- Desperation: “I need this to happen now!”
- Control: “I have to figure out exactly how this will come to me.”
- Frustration: “Why isn’t it happening yet?”
💡 When you are in a state of resistance, you are unknowingly sending a signal of lack and fear.
My Personal Experience with Resistance
Not too long ago, I found myself caught in this exact situation. I had been working so hard on my online courses, pouring my heart into creating something transformational. But when the launch came, I started stressing over sign-ups.
Instead of trusting that the right people would come, I let doubt creep in:
❌ “What if no one signs up?”
❌ “What if all this effort was for nothing?”
❌ “Maybe I should push harder or change my approach.”
And guess what? The more I stressed, the more resistance I created. The energy of desperation was blocking the flow of abundance.
But then, I reminded myself of a truth I’ve always known: Manifestation works when you allow, not when you force.
- I took a deep breath and surrendered.
- I stopped obsessing over the numbers and started trusting.
- I reminded myself that what is meant for me cannot miss me.
And as soon as I shifted my energy, things started flowing effortlessly. Sign-ups came in, opportunities aligned, and I saw the proof that letting go works.
Manifestation Lesson:
- The universe cannot deliver what you desire if you’re holding on too tightly.
- Surrender doesn’t mean giving up—it means making space for what’s already yours.
- When you trust instead of chase, abundance flows naturally.
Step 1: Identify Your Manifestation Blocks
To release resistance, you first need to recognize what’s holding you back.
Ask yourself:
- Do I truly believe I can have what I desire?
- Am I trying to control how or when it happens?
- Is there any fear or doubt around my manifestation?
Once you identify where you’re holding resistance, you can start shifting your energy.
Step 2: The Art of Letting Go & Trusting the Universe
Letting go doesn’t mean giving up—it means releasing attachment to the outcome and trusting that it’s already on its way.
- Detach from the “how” and “when.” The universe works in ways you can’t always predict.
- Trust divine timing. What’s meant for you will arrive exactly when you’re ready.
- Surrender with gratitude. Act as if your manifestation is already here.
Mantra for Surrender: “I trust that everything I desire is already on its way to me.”
Step 3: Shift Your Energy from Lack to Abundance
Resistance often comes from a scarcity mindset. To release it, you must shift into a state of abundance.
How to Do This:
- Focus on what’s already going well. Gratitude instantly raises your vibration.
- Live as if you already have what you want. Walk, talk, and feel like the version of you who has already manifested their desires.
- Surround yourself with positive reinforcement. Listen to success stories, uplifting content, and affirmations.
Example: Instead of saying, “I need more money,” say, “Money is always flowing to me in unexpected ways.”
Step 4: Use the ‘Wouldn’t It Be Nice?’ Technique
If letting go feels hard, try shifting your mindset with this gentle manifestation method.
Instead of saying “I have to manifest this,” say “Wouldn’t it be nice if this happened?”
Example:
“Wouldn’t it be nice if I received unexpected money this week?”
“Wouldn’t it be nice if my dream job found me effortlessly?”
This method removes pressure and resistance while still aligning you with abundance.
Step 5: Take Inspired Action Without Attachment
Inspired action means moving toward your goals while remaining open to unexpected opportunities.
- When resistance is present: You may feel like you’re forcing things, overthinking every detail, or stressing about when and how it will happen.
- When you’re in alignment: You take small, intuitive steps while trusting that what’s meant for you is unfolding in perfect timing.
Example: If you’re manifesting love, don’t chase it. Instead, become the version of yourself who is already loved and fulfilled. The right person will naturally be drawn to your energy.
Final Thoughts: Your Manifestations Are Already on Their Way
The universe is always responding to your energy. The moment you stop forcing and start allowing, everything flows effortlessly.
What is one thing you’re ready to release today so you can receive more abundance?
Much love,
Krisztina
